Exactly one week ago, I had a quarrel with my partner.

I was feeling down and out over the loss of a friendship but instead of comforting me, my partner went clubbing with her friends.

I went for coffee with my mates.

My partner’s excuse was, “I know you were feeling down so Izad can cheer you up”.

I was really disappointed. She’s my partner yet she would rather have someone else to cheer me up.

I was dumbfounded.

PRIORITY vs OPTION.

I felt I wasn’t her priority. More like an option.